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Locations

Westover Chapel
6337 Hickman Road
Des Moines, IA 50322
Phone: 515-276-4567
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Dunn's Chapel
2121 Grand Ave
Des Moines, IA 50312
Phone: 515-244-2121
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Grandview Park Chapel
3211 Hubbell Avenue
Des Moines, Iowa 50317
Phone: 515-265-1652
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Brandt Dallas Center Chapel
1301 Ash Street
Dallas Center, Iowa 50063
Phone: 515-992-3701
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Brandt Woodward Chapel
312 Walnut Avenue
Woodward, Iowa 50276
Phone: 515-438-2205
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Sundberg-Kirkpatrick Chapel
202 S. Market Street
Madrid, Iowa 50156
Phone: 515-795-3283
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Pre-planning

Today, more people are recognizing that planning a funeral in advance of need demonstrates love and consideration toward their family members. It is a thoughtful decision that reduces the stress of indecision and uncertainty when death occurs.

The following information has been prepared to answer some of the questions we frequently received about pre-arrangement.

Why do people pre-arrange a funeral service for themselves or a family member?
There are many good reasons. Some plan ahead because there will be no one who is capable of making responsible decisions. Others have a definite preferences concerning their funeral service, and they want their families to be informed and involved in those decisions.

Many people pre-arrange because they like the peace of mind knowing there will be adequate funds to cover funeral expenses. Also pre-payment can provide real benefits when you are applying for Medicaid in the U.S.

Most importantly, pre-arrangement guarantees that rational decisions can be made ahead of time without the usual urgencies when death takes place.

What steps are involved?
After you determine your funeral preferences, we will explain your options and guide you in establishing your own plans. You should find the advice of your family, clergy, and your funeral director especially helpful when considering the options. We will record certain vital information and gather documents for the required forms.

Next, you can select a casket, burial vault, and other merchandise associated with the services. Finally, you may pay for the services and merchandise ahead of time through our funding program.

What will the pre-arranged funeral service cost?
The cost is a matter of your choice. All of your selections and options are featured in our itemized pricing guide. This guide provides factual information concerning each item and its price.

Funding the pre-arranged service is a choice most people make to ease possible financial pressures on their family. Pre-funding allows you to pay for the funeral service at current prices. As your plan grows over time, it offsets inflation and should provide adequate funds for the future cost of the funeral.

Funding those arrangements with insurance coverage in advance of need is a relatively new idea that is offered by funeral homes. An individual may insure his or her life for the full present day cost of the funeral arrangements. For those who qualify, our program can provide immediate and considerable cost savings.

Who Qualifies?
Individuals between the ages of 0 and 99 may apply. No medical examination is required for the life insurance, just a simple questionnaire that is completed after advance funeral plans have been made.

Pre-Planning Advantages... Increasing Death Benefits
Reduce the impact of inflation, which would otherwise increase the cost of your funeral.

How is Pre-Planning Done?
Our funeral home staff member will meet with you at a time that is convenient, and assist you in recording your wishes. You choose everything you want for your funeral: the type of funeral service, casket, burial vault, music, and flowers. Important obituary information will be recorded. Once you have made your selections, you will learn the payment options available to you. A record of your selections will be kept on file at the funeral home until needed.



Grief Resources

The following grief counseling and support groups are available in our region. These organizations offer help to people who have experienced loss through death. Your funeral director can offer additional information at your request.

Bereavement Support Groups in Des Moines

Below we have provided a number of local area support groups that you may want to consider after the loss of a loved one. All of the groups welcome new members and encourage you to be as active as you want to be.

At the time of a loss and immediately after, friends and family provide a great source of comfort. But as the days pass, most of us find that the support and friendship of kindred souls who have suffered the same kind of loss is both helpful and healing.

Partnership Between Iles Funeral Homes and Amanda the Panda

Iles Funeral Homes and Amanda the Panda have partnered together to support children and families when someone they love has died. This support is provided through services which include: Weekend camps tailored to college students, children ages 6 – 17, and adults as well as support groups, Fun Days, and Holiday Support activities and programs. Amanda the Panda provides these services free of charge to our families. Amanda the Panda's mission is to restore grieving children and families back into the mainstream of their lives through innovative services that provide hope and healing. For additional information call 515.223.4847 or visit www.amandathepanda.org

BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUPS FOR LOSS OF CHILD

Compassionate Friends
 
Self-help organization for bereaved families after the death of a child.  Meets the first Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. at Hamilton's on Westown Parkway, Children's Butterfly Garden Reception Room, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines.  Contact from other parents who have also had a child die, provides the opportunity to talk to someone who has "been there."  Lending library and newsletter available.  Sibling and grandparent support also.

 

Contacts: Co-Chapter Leader: Cathy Peterson

catmarpet@q.com (515) 993-4574

Co-Chapter Leader:  Mary Jane Nemetz (515) 238-1198

Accidental Death:  Donnafred Hinman (515) 226-2141

SIDA Death: Karen Wiederholt (515) 274-3584

Suicide:  Paul & JoyceScranton (515) 965-2467

Empty Arms (part of the Compassionate Friends)

Support group for parents who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant death. Meets, along with Compassionate Friends, the first Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. at Hamilton's on Westown Parkway, Children's Butterfly Garden Reception Room, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines. The discussion group is lead by other parents who have also experienced miscarriage, stillbirth or infant death. Lending library and newsletter availabe.

Contact: Betsy Lundy (515) 277-7502


Iowa SIDS Foundation

The Iowa SIDS Foundation is a statewide non-profit health organization dedicated to providing emotional support to SIDS and SUID families, educating professionals and the general public about SIDS and funding medical research into the causes of SIDS.

406 SW School Street, Ste. 205

Ankeny, Iowa 50023

e-mail: info@iowasids.org

Contact: Patty Keeley (patty@iowasids.org)

(515) 965-7655 or (866) 480-4741


Mommies With Hope

A biblically based support group for moms who have experienced the loss of a child (pregnancy, infant, or child loss). Moms are encouraged by connecting with and comforting one another through monthly "Hope" meetings and occasional social outings. Whether your loss is recent or abiding, all stages of grief are welcome.

www.mommieswithhope.com

e-mail: info@mommieswithhope.com

Contact: Teske Drake (319) 404-0272

 

Sids Support Group

Support group for parents who have lost a child to Sudden Infant Death. Meets the 2nd Tuesday of the month from 7-9 p.m. in the Kelly Dining Room at Iowa Methodist Medical Center, 1200 Pleasant St. (basement level, past the cafeteria).

e-mail: info@iowasids.ord

Contact: Carol Thomas (515) 223-1600


BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP FOR LOSS BY SUICIDE

Coping After A Suicide Support Group - by Polk County Crisis and Advcacy Services

Offers a safe, confidential support group open to anyone (older teens and adults) surviving the loss of a loved one through suicide. Meets the second Thursday of each month from 6-7:30 p.m. as well as the last Saturday of each month from 9-10:30 a.m. No charge.

Polk County Crisis and Advocacy Services

2309 Euclid 

Des Moines, Iowa 50310

Contact: Kate Gilmore (515) 286-2029

 

Homicide Survivors Support Group - by Polk County Crisis and Advocacy Services

For family and friends who have lost a loved one as the result of homicide. Meets the third Tuesday of each month at our office from 6-7:30 p.m. No charge.

Polk County Crisis and Advocacy Services

2309 Euclid

Des Moines, Iowa 50310

Contact: Sara McMillan (515) 286-2026

 

BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUPS FOR LOSS OF A SPOUSE

LADOS
LADOS "Life After Death Of Spouse" meets the second Sunday of the month at 7 p.m. at Plymouth Congregational Church, 42nd St. and Ingersoll, DM, for compassion, education and fellowship. In addition to the meetings there are dinners, special events and other social activities. "Don't Eat Alone" every Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. at the Olive Garden on Westown Parkway in West Des Moines.


Retreats for Widowed Persons

"One Der Full Weekend." This retreat is held each April at Pilgrim Heights Camp (near Tama-Toledo). Keynote speakers, workshops, and fun activities

"Fun Day." This retreat is held every October at Pilgrim Heights Camp. A day of fun, food and fellowship. Activities include fishing, paddle boating and canoeing.

Contact: Carol Dorsey (712) 762-3825


W.E.T. Group- Widows Experiencing Transition

A support group started in 2005 for women in their 20's through their 60's who have experienced the death of their spouse. This group meets twice monthly, one a social outing, the other a meeting. It provides opportunities to foster new friendships, learn together to conquer the feeling, struggles and doubts encountered in this new life and to receive spirtual support.

e-mail: ljcollicott@yahoo.com

Contact: Linda Collicot (515) 953-1681


Y.E.W.S. - Young Energetic Widowed Singles, Inc.

Started in 1984, the YEWS group is a social support group for adults who have experienced the death of their spouse. The regular monthly dinner is held on the 2nd and 4th Thursday night of each month. The group dines out in a local restaurant with social conversation and dinner at 6 p.m. There is no meeting, just conversation, laughter and fun.

Contacts: Virginia Powers (515) 255-1950

Volney Smith (515) 987-3388

 

FOR GRIEVING CHILDREN

AMANDA THE PANDA SUPPORT GROUPS

Children (ages 6-17) grieving the death of a loved one meet in separate groups with two facilitators per group for 8 weeks on Monday evenings in the fall, winter and spring. Starting at 6:00 p.m. a meal is served and groups conclude at 7:30 p.m. No Charge.

www.amandathepanda.org

1000 73rd St., Suite 12

Windsor Heights, Iowa 50324

Contact: Charlene Kiesling (515) 223-4847

 

CAMP AMANDA - for grieving children, teens and adults

This weekend grief camp is held in April and September for grieving children (6 years and older), teens and adults. Camp dates and application forms are posted on the webstie. No charge.

Contact: Charlene Kiesling (515) 223-4847

 

DADDY'S LITTLE ANGELS - ages 12 and under

A support group started in 2006 for children ages 12 and under, whose dads have died. There are monthly activities planned, either a meeting, a social or an outing.

e-mail: jnichols511@msn.com

Contact: Jana Nichols (515) 962-0614

 

STEPPING STONES - ages 3-5 and 6-10

A six week program designed to encourage children, who have experienced the loss of a loved one, to share their experiences, identify and understand their feelings, clarify misunderstings about death and dying and strengthen their faith in Jesus. Meets in conjunction with GriefShare.

Gloria Dei Lutheran Church

8301 Aurora Ave., Urbandale, Iowa 50322

www.gloriadeionline.com

Contacts: Michelle Ingersoll (515) 276-1700

 

GRIEF RELIEF - by Hospice of Central Iowa

Grief Relief is a three hour event, twice a year; open to grades 7-12. This session is about handling the grief that comes after someone dies. Free of Charge. Call for location and registration.

www.hospicesofcentraliowa.org

Contact: Bereavement Counselors (515) 274-3400

 

TEENS TOGETHER GRIEF SUPPORT - by Gloria Dei Lutheran Church

An interactive discussion-based curriculum which helps teens who have lost a loved one go through the grief process with others who are experiencing the same emotional situations. Activities take place at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church.

www.gloriadeionline.com

Contact: Pastor Tim Phillips

(tphillips@gloriadeionline.com) (515) 276-1700

 

BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUPS FOR ALL

TOG
TOG "Touching Our Grief" is ongoing grief support sessions for adults surviving the death of someone loved. Support group available in West Des Moines. No charge. Call for dates, times and locations of groups outside of West Des Moines.

401 Railroad Pl.

West Des Moines, Iowa 50265

www.hospiceofcentraliowa.org

Contact: Bereavement Counselors (515) 274-3400

SEASONS OF GRIEF - by Iowa Health Hospice

Evening grief support group for adults over age 18. Group meets the first Monday of every month. Group is offered twice on that day from 10:00 a.m. to noon and 6:30-8:30 p.m. at no charge.

11333 Aurora Ave., Urbandale, Iowa 50322

Contact: Tricia Tentinger (515) 557-3169

"Supper Gathering"- Adults who are grieving the death of a loved one gather at a designated restaurant at 6:30 p.m. on the third Monday of alternating months. Supper is "Dutch Treat" ordered from the menu. Pre-registration is required. Supper Gathering provides socializing opportunity for people interested in Seasons of Grief (See above). No charge.


STEPPING STONES - by Iowa Health Hospice

Four Sessions that provide basic information about the emotional and physical aspects of the grieving process. Offered on Thursdays in March, July and October from 10 a.m. to noon and again from 6:30-8:30 p.m. No Charge.

11333 Aurora Ave., Urbandale, Iowa 50322

Contact: Tricia Tentinger (515) 557-3169

 

GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP - by SouthernCare Hospice

A grief support group for those who are grieving the death of a loved one. Meets monthly, with no pre-registration. There is no start date or end date. Come for as many sessions as you would like. The meetings are every second Wednesday of the month from 1-3 p.m. at the

SouthernCare Hospice office

2900 100th St. (Ashland Point Bldg.),

Suite 103., Urbandale, Iowa 50322

e-mail: desmoines@southerncareinc.com

Contact: Rev. Doug Tiffany. Chaplain

(515) 727-8011 or (866) 902-1310

 

MERCY HOSPICE BEREAVEMENT SERVICES

"Soup Tuesday" - an opportunity to share a simple meal with others who have experienced the death of a loved one. Held the first Tuesday of every month, 5:30-7:00 p.m. at Mercy Hospice-Johnston, 5820 Winwood Dr., Johnston, Iowa  50131

"Comfort and Coffee" - a monthly drop-in grief support group. Meets the first Friday of each month, 10 a.m., Mercy Hospice-Johnston, 5820 Winwood Dr., Johnston, Iowa 50131

"The Men's Group" - a non-denominational social group for men of all ages who have experienced the loss of a loved one: spouse, parent, child, friend. Times and dates vary.

"Pathways through Grief" - a multi-session grief education program offered several times throughout the year. Classes limited to 12.

"Managing Grief During the Holidays" - offers positive, creative suggestions for living through the holidays while experiencing the loss of a family member. Typically offered in early November.

 For more information, or to make reservations for any of the programs listed, please send an e-mail to mcasey@mercydesmoines.org or Contact: Mary Kay Casey (515) 643-6147

 

SUPPORT GROUPS

 

AMANDA THE PANDA SUPPORT GROUPS

Adults grieving the death of a loved one meet with two facilitators per group for 8 weeks on Monday evenings in the fall, winter and spring. A meal is served at 6:00 p.m. and groups conclude at 7:30 p.m. There is no charge. (Groups are available for children and teens 6-17 at the same time.)

www.amandathepanda.org

1000 73rd St., Suite 12

Windsor Heights, Iowa 50324

Contact: Charlene "Charlie" Kiesling

(515) 223-4847

 

BEGINNING EXPERIENCE

The Beginning Experience weekend program helps grieving single-again persons move from the darkness of grief into the light of a new beginning, and move into the future with renewed hope. The program helps deal with the natural grief process and offers an opportunity, through God, for turning the pain of loss into an experience of positive growth. Three weekend programs are provided each year.

Contact: Cleo Scheidel

 

GRIEF COUNSELING

 

CATHOLIC CHARITIES OF THE DIOCESE OF DES MOINES

Services provided to families, couples, and individuals struggling with a variety of issues including grief, loss, sexual abuse, and family conflict.

601 Grand Ave.

Des Moines, Iowa 50309

Information: (515) 244-3761

 

CHILDREN AND FAMILIES OF IOWA

Strengthening Families and Restoring Futures. Licensed clinicians that are caring and compassionate to assist families in healing through grief and loss and other life situations/events. A non-profit organization that provides counseling on a sliding scale or ability to pay basis for children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. Evening hours available.

1111 University Ave.

Des Moines, Iowa

Contact: Pat Rogness (515) 697-7978

 

DES MOINES PASTORAL COUNSELING CENTER

Counseling that provides understanding, hope and healing in a variety of areas including: grief and loss, anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, relationship problems, parent-child issues, and spiritual matters. Compassionate counselors take a mind, body and spirit approach to helping individual adults, couples and families to live more fully. Innovative services for counseling children and adolescents. An independent non-profit organization providing counseling through insurance and/or on a sliding scale or ability-to-pay basis. Office hours 8-6 Monday-Friday, evening hours available.

www.dmpcc.org

2929 Westown Parkway, Suite 110

West Des Moines, Iowa 50265

Information: (515) 274-4006



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